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What We Do

Our firm focuses exclusively on divorce cases and family law, from the most complex to the least difficult.

DIVORCE

No-fault Divorce. Because New Mexico is a no-fault state, a party requesting a divorce is ordinarily granted one. This means we are required to concentrate our attention on other complex issues. The courts do not pursue who is right, or who has done wrong in a marriage. Thus the outcome of the case depends upon choices we make with the clients as to disputes over children, alimony, child support, or the evaluation or distribution of the parties' property. Our lawyers not only have experience in each of these areas, but we have been leaders in various state and national programs, which has allowed us to bring our experience and provide training to other lawyers in New Mexico and other states.

Importance of Counseling. Divorce is so emotionally difficult for a party that, in our experience, it is helpful for our clients to be in counseling while they go through the process. Counseling also helps our clients reduce legal expenses. Many of the issues in divorce are emotional. Counselors can deal with those issues more efficiently than can lawyers. We have a number of excellent mental health professionals that we can refer you to, if you do not have a counselor of your own.

CUSTODY IN GENERAL

Child custody cases may involve only the state of New Mexico, or they may involve different states including New Mexico, or they may involve different countries and New Mexico. The issues in a custody case are basically twofold. The first to be determined is where the children will spend time, and with whom. We call this periods of responsibility. The second is who will have the legal responsibility for the children (called joint or sole custody). We are required to stay current in all those areas of child custody practice, and we have experience in all of them.

International Custody. Custody cases involving jurisdiction disputes between different countries and New Mexico are governed by various provisions of federal and international law. The country where the child has lived usually should determine that child's custody, although there are many complexities in the application of this law. Some of our cases have come about when a child who lives abroad comes here for a holiday visit, and the New Mexico parent refuses to return the child. Sometimes the parent has good reason for refusing to return the child, and sometimes the parent is retaining the child improperly. It is our job to help the local parent decide if they have the right to keep the child here. Sometimes we must help the foreign parent get their child back. Some of our cases involve an American parent trying to get their child back from a foreign country. If you are contemplating moving abroad, or coming here with a child from another country, it is best to discuss the legal implications of doing so, even if you believe you have a good marriage. If you live in Europe with a child for more than six months you may be prohibited from returning with that child to live in the United States, if the other parent objects.

Custody Between New Mexico and Other States. Custody disputes between other states and New Mexico are usually governed by the Child Custody Jurisdiction Act, which has been adopted in most states, and federal statutes governing child custody disputes between states. Generally, the state where the child lives should determine custody questions with respect to that child, but there are many exceptions to this general principle, both in the federal statutes and state statutes. We would consult with you to determine whether any of these exceptions apply.

New Mexico Custody. Many people move to New Mexico from other states and countries. This requires us to be prepared to handle these multi state cases involving many other jurisdictions. In New Mexico, custody is based upon the best interests of the child. This determination is based on many complicated interrelated factors.

Joint vs. Sole Custody. There is a strong presumption in New Mexico in favor of joint custody. This does not mean equal periods of responsibility with the child but rather it means equal responsibility for the major decisions in the child's life, such as the child's school, medical care, religion, or where the child will live. Sometimes, in unusual cases, based on many complex factors, sole custody is found to be best for the child.

Custody Mediation. If the parties are unable to reach an agreement as to the type of custody for the child, or what the periods of responsibility should be, they are required to participate in mediation to attempt to reach an agreement before they are free to go to court. The parties are not required to reach an agreement if either of them believes an agreement would be unfair. It is always better to confer with a lawyer that has had mediation training before you begin mediation.

Mental Health Assistance. Often, we will have the parents confer with a mental health professional to receive advice as to what is best for the child. Sometimes a mental health person is appointed by the court to give an opinion to the court as to what's best for the child. We have worked with many of the best of these professionals in New Mexico to help our clients decide what is best for their children. Further, if your child would benefit from therapy, but do not have a child therapist, we can refer you to several of the best.

PROPERTY DIVISION

Property division cases can be complex.

Community Property In General. New Mexico is a community property state. Any property acquired through the effort of either party during the marriage is generally community, although in New Mexico earnings from separate property are not community. Sometimes community property can be traced into separate property or separate property can be traced into community property. Then the separate and community property have to be divided by a formula that divides the assets proportionately.

Out-of-State Community Property. There are nine community property states, each with their own variety of law. Gretchen Walther is a New Mexico delegate to the Council of Community Property states where they can keep abreast of all the new developments in community property law nationwide. This is important, because sometimes the property law of other states is used to guide New Mexico courts in making decisions. Sometimes the property law of other states controls the division of property in New Mexico cases. We confer with our clients to determine which body of law applies.

Property Evaluations. Equally complex is the evaluation of businesses, pensions, real estate or personal property.

Business Valuations. Business valuations require the hiring of an expert who can use various methods of evaluation in determining the worth of a property. We work with the best evaluators in the state to determine the fairest formula to be used in valuing a business.

Personal or Real Property Values. Real estate or valuable personal property is also valued by an expert appraiser who will place a price on the property. However, these evaluations are always a matter of judgment. We must scrutinize these very carefully, and often are requested to challenge them.

Pensions. Retirement plans are generally divided by a qualified relations order that can divide the account into two accounts, one for each spouse. Sometimes, however, it is necessary to get an expert to value the plan. We work with experts with whom we have had experience in the past.

CHILD SUPPORT

Child support is based upon a formula. The variables of the formula include the amount of time the child spends with each parent, the gross monthly income of each parent and what extras the parents have agreed to provide to the child. Each of these variables are often subject to dispute. Further, the law allows deviation from these guidelines, based on a complex set of factors. These factors must be carefully examined before the child support is agreed upon.

ALIMONY

Alimony is generally determined based upon the need of the recipient and the ability of the payor to meet that need. However, the factors that go into these considerations are complex indeed, and its determination leaves many areas for dispute. The factors on which alimony is based include the following:

Age and Health of the Parties

Earning Capacity of the Respective Spouses

Efforts of the Respective Spouses to Be Employed

The Needs of the Spouses

  • the standard of living during the term of the marriage;
  • medical insurance;
  • life insurance;
  • duration of the marriage;
  • property award;
  • the type of the spouses' assets;
  • spouses' liabilities;
  • income produced by property;
  • prior agreements entered into by the spouses.

• FAMILY LAW APPEALS

Decisions of hearing officers can be appealed to the district court. Decisions of the district court can be appealed to the Court of Appeals. Within our firm, David Walther has had extensive appellate experience and has written books for lawyers on this subject. Gretchen Walther has also had New Mexico appellate experience in complex divorce and family law cases. The majority of the decisions on appeal are affirmed. Therefore appellate work is probably the most challenging work our firm performs. We must carefully review the law and the trial court records to see whether there have been errors of law or wrongful decisions on the facts by the court. If we find that has occurred we then prepare a brief for the Appellate Court. Sometimes, the Appellate Court wants us to also present an oral argument.

FAMILY LAW and MEDIATION

Many people believe divorce and family law issues are a personal and emotional matter rather than a legal event. They believe the traditional adversary system is inappropriate for parties ending their marriage who may wish to resolve their issues outside the legal paradigm and on a basis more suitable to their individual circumstances. They also believe the adversarial system can be too long, costly and rancorous particularly when children are involved. Although many other professionals practice as mediators, we believe that in a divorce case, lawyers should participate either as a mediator or as the representative of the client in mediation.

Lawyers As Mediators. All of our attorneys are certified mediators. Gretchen Walther has done extensive research and writing on mediation. They are able to mediate the issues in a divorce case, either alone, or in co-mediation with an accountant, a psychologist, or a social worker. They can employ their extensive experience in the law to help parties seeking a fair agreement.

Lawyers for Parties in Mediation. In addition, we believe parties who are in mediation should be represented separately by a lawyer with mediation experience to see that their agreement properly protects them. This is particularly important where the mediator is a non-lawyer. Gretchen Walther has written an article on Power Imbalances in Divorce Mediation.

PRE-NUPTIAL AGREEMENT LITIGATION

The Agreement. Often parties reach agreements prior to the marriage to attempt to resolve all of the issues between them in the event of a divorce. The purpose of such agreements is to vary the provisions that the law otherwise would allow. To be valid, such agreements must follow certain requirements to guarantee that they are fair and proper.

We Litigate. If the agreement is not proper, it may be challenged in court. Upon a divorce many people believe that these agreements do not secure them what they are entitled to, or sufficiently protect their assets from improper claims.

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